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:: Little Bruises and Meanderings ::
Created on 2007-08-12 16:49:01 (#13581572), last updated 2009-02-23
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Basic Info BioTime moves in jerking halts sometimes with brief spurts of speed. I shudder to think what I will become in the near future - say 3 years from now.
Notwithstanding this, I guess we all manage somehow and in that, I believe, we can all take comfort in. Not the easy, complacent comfort where we just let everything go hang, but rather, the hesitant comfort that we know, with trust, He will reveal eventually - All in good time.
Somehow it is strange that we always remember the good things that happen in our lives and the bad things that other people do to us. I am still learning to let go during the appropriate times and to hold on when I should.
Some things don't change though, like: my love for my family - those that have gone and those that I cannot ever imagine losing but know I will, someday, in the hopefully far far far future, my love for good writing, my ineffable thirst for interesting music, addictions to computer games, my curiosity for photography and many other things which will come to me in time.
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I'm a typical Libra, to the curious, with Virgon traits and Pisces' spirituality.
Here's some lines describing a Libra which I sort of resonate to:
1. A Libra male can be as cranky as a crocodile with poison ivy, and his habit of rationalizing everything, including love, will drive you to frenzy-or leave you limp with defeat. (AMEN!)
2. The attraction of Libra is logicul and real, not supernatural in any sense. There's no black magic about it, just common sense submission to his heavenly aura. (I WISH!)
3. There will be times when those Libra scales dip back and forth with crazy contradiction. You'll have to shout at him, push him into the lake, or stand on your head to get his attention and force him to make a move. Don't be so naive as to think love will be smooth and eternally tranquil, even if he is ruled by Venus.
4. When the scales balance, life with Libra can be as intoxicating as a goblet of golden ambrosia, with lots of laughs and a casual freedom known only to the gods who cavort on Olympus. (The trick is to get the scales balanced).
5. Libra invented romance, and refined it to an art with even more finesse than Leo, Scorpio and Taurus, which is saying a lot. The delicate strategies of Cupid are inbred Libran talents. He'll use every trick with casual ease and seldom fail to get the girl. (This only applies when I give advice to OTHER people... LOL).
6. Since the art of love-making comes so easily-and shockingly early-to the Libra male, and since he almost always wears the crown of success on his romantic excursions into love's jungle, he gets tangled up with a lot of clinging vines. (No comment. LOL).
7. Always remember that the Libran argues with only an abstract curiosity. He appears to be a prober, but he's not. Nor is he as nosy and gossipy as he seems to be. It's like breaking the seal of the confessional to pry a secret given in confidence from the typical Libran. (AMEN! Only I don't pry.)
8. The Libra male hates confusion, and he really needs harmony to remain stable. (AMEN!)
9. If you're in love with a Libra man, and you're sure it's meant to be, go right ahead and propose whatever it is you want to propose, up to and including marriage. Hell be relieved that you took the initiative.
But watch out for that perverse streak-which causes him to let you decide, and then when it doesn't work out, cheerfully point out that "You made the decision. I didn't." Make sure you know what you're doing, or you'll never hear the end of it.
There's only one way to even the score with him. Say "Yes, I decided. If I had left it up to you, we'd still be standing under that lamppost in the rain saying 'I love you,' and we'd both have caught pneumonia."
He'll argue with you, naturally, but just before or after you bounce the teapot off his head, he'll accidentally smile, and there you'll be-standing under that lamppost in the rain again, saying "I love you," once more.
(what, me? *innocent smile* Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaw!!! *impish grin*)
Notwithstanding this, I guess we all manage somehow and in that, I believe, we can all take comfort in. Not the easy, complacent comfort where we just let everything go hang, but rather, the hesitant comfort that we know, with trust, He will reveal eventually - All in good time.
Somehow it is strange that we always remember the good things that happen in our lives and the bad things that other people do to us. I am still learning to let go during the appropriate times and to hold on when I should.
Some things don't change though, like: my love for my family - those that have gone and those that I cannot ever imagine losing but know I will, someday, in the hopefully far far far future, my love for good writing, my ineffable thirst for interesting music, addictions to computer games, my curiosity for photography and many other things which will come to me in time.
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I'm a typical Libra, to the curious, with Virgon traits and Pisces' spirituality.
Here's some lines describing a Libra which I sort of resonate to:
1. A Libra male can be as cranky as a crocodile with poison ivy, and his habit of rationalizing everything, including love, will drive you to frenzy-or leave you limp with defeat. (AMEN!)
2. The attraction of Libra is logicul and real, not supernatural in any sense. There's no black magic about it, just common sense submission to his heavenly aura. (I WISH!)
3. There will be times when those Libra scales dip back and forth with crazy contradiction. You'll have to shout at him, push him into the lake, or stand on your head to get his attention and force him to make a move. Don't be so naive as to think love will be smooth and eternally tranquil, even if he is ruled by Venus.
4. When the scales balance, life with Libra can be as intoxicating as a goblet of golden ambrosia, with lots of laughs and a casual freedom known only to the gods who cavort on Olympus. (The trick is to get the scales balanced).
5. Libra invented romance, and refined it to an art with even more finesse than Leo, Scorpio and Taurus, which is saying a lot. The delicate strategies of Cupid are inbred Libran talents. He'll use every trick with casual ease and seldom fail to get the girl. (This only applies when I give advice to OTHER people... LOL).
6. Since the art of love-making comes so easily-and shockingly early-to the Libra male, and since he almost always wears the crown of success on his romantic excursions into love's jungle, he gets tangled up with a lot of clinging vines. (No comment. LOL).
7. Always remember that the Libran argues with only an abstract curiosity. He appears to be a prober, but he's not. Nor is he as nosy and gossipy as he seems to be. It's like breaking the seal of the confessional to pry a secret given in confidence from the typical Libran. (AMEN! Only I don't pry.)
8. The Libra male hates confusion, and he really needs harmony to remain stable. (AMEN!)
9. If you're in love with a Libra man, and you're sure it's meant to be, go right ahead and propose whatever it is you want to propose, up to and including marriage. Hell be relieved that you took the initiative.
But watch out for that perverse streak-which causes him to let you decide, and then when it doesn't work out, cheerfully point out that "You made the decision. I didn't." Make sure you know what you're doing, or you'll never hear the end of it.
There's only one way to even the score with him. Say "Yes, I decided. If I had left it up to you, we'd still be standing under that lamppost in the rain saying 'I love you,' and we'd both have caught pneumonia."
He'll argue with you, naturally, but just before or after you bounce the teapot off his head, he'll accidentally smile, and there you'll be-standing under that lamppost in the rain again, saying "I love you," once more.
(what, me? *innocent smile* Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaw!!! *impish grin*)
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Anglo-Chinese School (Junior) - Singapore, Singapore, Singapore (1990 - 1995)Anglo-Chinese School (Barker Road) - Singapore, Singapore, Singapore (1995 - 1998)
Anglo-Chinese Junior College - Singapore, Singapore, Singapore (1998 - 1999)
Singapore Management University - Singapore, Singapore, Singapore (2002 - 2006)
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